ABHAY DEOL – The host of Zee TV’s ‘Connected Hum Tum’
• What is your role as the host of ‘Connected Hum Tum’? Tell us a little about the show and what you bring to it as the host …
• As a format of entertainment, the show is something India has not experienced yet. The idea of six women shooting their own lives and baring their soul on national television is a first. ‘Connected Hum Tum’ studies the mindspace of six women at different crossroads in life. In doing so, Zee TV gives the audiences a chance to understand the psyche of today’s Indian woman, thereby understanding the women in our own lives better. To watch six women deal with the real drama of their lives in their own individual ways, will help us understand them and, in turn, ourselves and our relationships better.
• As the host of the show, I intend to leave the audience with a male perspective on these women and how I perceive them through my lens! I will raise questions that will make them think …
• What made you take on the show? What attracted you to it?
• I found the subject and the format of the show completely out-of-the-box, a far cry from the done-to-death saas bahu dramas. It's something more real than a reality show. Just as I associate with films that are off-beat, I found myself drawn to this show that I consider unique and different.
• How do you think the show will impact society?
• It has the potential to spread the word about gender equality. It will sensitize the audience to the way a woman’s mind works as it showcases the point of view of the modern Indian woman. With violence amongst women so rampant, I feel it will be able to appeal to people’s humanistic side.
• Do you have any apprehensions about how your image would change or the perception about you could change with such a show?
• Apprehensions? Hardly. I don't see how or why doing a show that attempts to understand women better could pose detrimental to my image. If you are refering to the question that the show asks - "why is it so difficult to understand women?", then let me tell you, I completely identify with the question and do not find it chauvinistic or offensive towards women.. Women, as wonderful as they are, are a very intriguing maze that men can only hope to decipher and many of us just wade through life often baffled and stumped by them, its because we're wired differently. The show aims to understand six women of today, and help us in turn understand the women of our own lives better. I'm sure the audience will appreciate this as they will instantly connect with these women and their lives!
• So, do you find women difficult to understand like the tagline of the show?
• Yes, I too have occasionally found the women of my life quite difficult to understand. Adorable as they are, they do leave me puzzled at times.
• So would you be able to do what these 6 women have agreed to do? Shoot your own life and broadcast it on national television?
• Being constantly on camera is not an easy job. As an actor, I face the camera and lay my emotions bare for the world to see. But after pack-up, taking a camera back home and living my life in front of the lens is something I could never do. Hats off to the ladies! Women are much stronger than men in every way. They can handle things that we can’t even dream of. Men aren’t as capable.”
• Sonam Kapoor has been your co-star across a couple of films now. Do you understand her at all or is she, as a woman, very difficult to understand?
• Sonam, to be honest, is not that difficult to understand.
• Isn’t it too late for you to jump onto the television bandwagon?
• Doing television was never a part of any pre-planned agenda for me. So the question of me turning to television too late does not arise. I have always gone with my gut in my choice of films and 'Connected Hum Tum' is no exception. I did not take on this assignment looking at it as a switch to television .. The concept appealed, the medium is incidental.
• Would you consider judging a singing or dance reality show?
Those are not my areas of expertise. But as I have been working in films, I feel I can judge a show based on filmmaking. But judging isn’t really appealing to me personally.
• Who are the women you would like to see taking cameras home and shooting their lives?
• I would definitely give the camera to my mum and sister, asking them to shoot their lives .. Not my girlfriend as I would be a part of all the footage myself - something I am not comfortable with! But yes my mum and sister for sure as I barely get time with them..I wish to understand the women of my life better - know what's really cooking in their heads - maybe that will make me a better son, a better brother. Apart from them, I'd like to give the camera to Sonia Gandhi .. how does she cope with all issues that we hear of now…her life will be interesting to watch and understand!
• Did remuneration have a key role in your association with ‘Connected Hum Tum’?
• For this one, no. It was clearly the subject and the format of ‘Connected Hum Tum’ that clinched it for me. But can money be a factor to influence my decision? Yes, ofcourse. We all need to earn and movies don’t necessarily pay that much, especially if you aren’t working with branded names and formula subjects.
• What is the difference between the mediums – television and films?
• Television has phenomenal reach. It's everywhere and has an everyday connect with the audience. Cinema being a one-time viewing experience is a different ball game. In television, the challenge is to sustain audience interest in a story for weeks and months that a show continues to air. With films, though you need to keep an audience engrossed for just three hours, the expectations are of a very different order. It's for an actor to leverage the strengths of each medium to his advantage.
• How will you balance between doing television and films?
• That’s not a problem. I have just wrapped up my home production One by Two that is based on the secret law of attraction theory. I’ll now devote the next month to shooting for Connected Hum Tum … it’s about prioritizing and planning well ahead.
• What do you watch on television?
I’m not a big “TV” person. You’ll find it boring (smiles) but I watch Discovery, NatGeo and news. Recently, I watched the American show Good Wife and really liked it.
• So if there was a male version of the show with the same concept, who’d replace you as the host?
• Rakhi Sawant (he grins)